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  • This stuff is too good to make up!

    “What we’ve got here is failure to communicate. Some men, you just can’t reach. So you get what we had here last week–which is the way he wants it. Well he gets it. And I don’t like it anymore than you.”
     
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    I got a text message from my son. Miss Ellie Jeanie sent a friend request to my ex-husband telling him he looked familiar. Then, when he accepted it, she went on to tell him her “suitcase of lies.”
     
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    You have stated time and time again that anything you post is public information so you can’t be held responsible. You are soooo wrong! While the information is public, cyber-stalking laws prohibit you from posting that information online in order to use information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group that is intended to harm another. My blog started long before our fallout, and at the time, it had nothing to do with you. When you started you bizarre attacks on me after I accepted a friend request from someone you hate, I blogged about it. In that blog I called you the Terrible Twosome; a name I knew you really wouldn’t hate because you are so proud of your “Terrible” reputation, or so you say…
     
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    Let me make this very clear; I have no intention of suing anyone! If the detective wants to pursue the criminal route for the cyber-stalking, that’s up to him. I presented him with the evidence I had at hand, including the information shared by Dr. Sabb. I told the detective I was more interested in finding out about who sent the card and who placed the second envelope, that appears to have not been mailed but placed into my mailbox by the perpetrator (I would like to thank Henry The Horse for pointing that out. I know he meant to hurt me and accuse me of sending these to myself, but without that keen-eyed observation I might not have realized that someone drove to my house to place this in my mailbox).
    The detective insisted that I give him all the information I had about the Terrible Twosome… he wanted all the screenshots, persona’s, etc. of everyone who was participating in these cyber attacks. I tried to steer him away by telling him that I did not believe you all meant for any harm to come to me, but after reading the posts, he thinks I’m wrong. I said, “But they are only doing this because they think I betrayed them, gave them up, etc. etc.” He said “Then that is their motive…” Wow!


  • Cyber-stalkers; Part II, always playing victim…

    Before you get your panties in a twist, I don’t plan to sue anyone.
     
    Cyber-stalkers try to damage the reputation of their victim and turn other people against them gathering information online in order to harass them. A repeated pattern of such actions and harassment against a target by an adult constitutes cyber-stalking. Examples of Cyber-stalking are:
     
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    According to the law I can.
     
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    Gee… What reason would you possibly have to speak to my ex-husband? Cyber-stalking?
     
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    Here’s the pattern discussed in the law text… Were you gathering information?
     
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    Cyber-stalking is a form of cyber-bullying. Cyber-bullying is defined in legal glossaries as:
    • actions that use information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group that is intended to harm another.
    A repeated pattern of such actions and harassment against a target by an adult constitutes cyber stalking.
    • The use of internet service and mobile technologies such as web pages and discussion groups as well as instant messaging or SMS text messaging with the intention of harming another person.

     
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    While it is legal to use “Google” to look up personal information on someone, it is not legal use that information to harass anyone. I am not the only person you have done this to. This is your Modus operandi (MO), and you brag about it.
     
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    My husband would like to know where all his artwork is at, because he doesn’t remember any.
     
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    Now this one is just funny… what a narcissist you are.
     
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    You let your stupid friends convince you I sent these to myself. It is hard to believe that there are so many sophomoric soap opera people out there! Real people do not send stuff to themselves in the mail! I want to scream “GROW THE FUCK UP!” but that won’t do any good.
     
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    Fools! A detective will be calling me shortly. I am also hearing that I might need to contact the Postmaster General due to the mailing fraud.


  • What is Cyber-bullying?

    Cyber-bullying is the use of Information Technology to harm or harass other people in a deliberate, repeated, and hostile manner. According to U.S. Legal Definitions, Cyber-bullying could be limited to posting rumors or gossips about a person in the internet bringing about hatred in other’s minds; or it may go to the extent of personally identifying victims and publishing materials severely defaming and humiliating them.

     

    Legal definition

    Cyber-bullying is defined in legal glossaries as actions that use information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group, that is intended to harm another or others.

     

    Examples of what constitutes cyber-bullying include communications that seek to intimidate, control, manipulate, put down, falsely discredit, or humiliate the recipient. The actions are deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior intended to harm another. Cyber-bullying has been defined by The National Crime Prevention Council: “When the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person.

    A cyber-bully may be a person whom the target knows or an online stranger. A cyber-bully may be anonymous and may solicit involvement of other people online who do not even know the target. This is known as a ‘digital pile-on.’

     

    The practice of cyber bullying is not limited to children and, while the behavior is identified by the same definition when practiced by adults, the distinction in age groups sometimes refers to the abuse as cyber-stalking or cyber-harassment when perpetrated by adults toward adults.  Behaviors may include encouraging others to harass the victim and trying to affect a victim’s online participation. Many cyber-stalkers try to damage the reputation of their victim and turn other people against them.

    Cyber-stalking may include false accusations, monitoring, making threats, or gathering information in order to harass. A repeated pattern of such actions and harassment against a target by an adult constitutes cyber-stalking. Cyber-stalking often features linked patterns of online and offline behavior. There are consequences of law in offline stalking and online stalking, and cyber-stalkers can be put in jail. Cyber-stalking is a form of cyber bullying.


  • Men! See how they are?

    I was online one day, and I saw this incredible apron. It was light weight black denim, and the script on it said “Crazy Cat Lady” in pink with swirls of white and pink around it to bring out the color against the black.

    “Tastefully done” I thought, “it’s for charity and I deserve it.” So, I ordered it.
    It came in the mail, and I put it on and went out to show my husband, who was working on some project or another in the back yard. As soon as he saw it, his face light up like a kid in a candy store… My spine started tingling…

    “Do you like it” I asked? The hairs on my neck were beginning to stand on end.

    “I LOVE IT” he exclaimed with delight. I could feel the “hiss” growing in my throat and my hair was now standing on end, knowing full well he was trying to set me up… somehow… I could see the anticipation in his face… after 24 years I knew what that look meant! He was waiting for me to spring the trap…

    “Thank you” I said as I turned to walk away…

    Wait for it…

    Wait for it…

    He cleared his throat and as I walked into the house I heard,

    “Does this mean you’re going to start cooking again?”

    He is so lucky I let him live!


  • Did she say that?

    I was walking into the kitchen behind my husband. He was tired and was going upstairs to watch TV. There was a full bottle of water on the stove (we drink bottled water). He snickered, thinking it was mine, and took it and said, “I’m going to take this water!” I hesitated because I was trying to remember something, and he said “You can get another one” snicker…snicker… all the way up the stairs. I decided to let it go. As I was getting my own water it came to me! Earlier I had filled two empty bottles up from the faucet to take outside to water some flower pots, and somewhere along the way I had lost one of them … I guess hubby found it for me… I snickered all the way up the stairs…