Dealing With Cancer XXX

05/03/2016~ The secret is out so I am no longer obliged to keep the secret.

My mother has just been diagnosed with a very aggressive form of lung cancer. Her lung has already collapsed and she now needs oxygen to keep her breathing normal. She asked the doctor who had shared this diagnosis with her how long he thought she had. He answered that she had four to six weeks. We were all devastated!

After chatting with him longer, she learned that he was a professional tennis player from Calcutta, India, and as it turns out, he knows Jarkko Nieminen, a Finnish professional tennis player (recently retired). He looked at her with new eyes. She was no longer just an 80-year old woman to him, and he came back and ordered Chemotherapy. She finished her first series on Friday, April 29, 2016.

We are now waiting for the results of her MRI/CT Scan on a new machine they have at Kaiser in Roseville. Ironically, my husband will be getting his MRI/CT SCAN on the same machine on June 13, 2016. They are worried that mom’s cancer has metastasized and is in her brain. He told her if that was the case, then they would try radiation therapy. She is happy just knowing that he is now on her side!!

 

Dad, me and mom, migrating to the USA, 1964
Dad, me and mom, migrating to the USA, 1964

 

My beautiful mother.
My beautiful mother.

 

Mom and Dad on their wedding day
Mom and Dad on their wedding day

 

50th Wedding Anniversary,  mom and dad
50th Wedding Anniversary, mom and dad